"It's written in the stars"
No it isn't. That's not true at all. Nothing is written in the stars. Their just stars. That's all they are.
Your destiny isn't written there.
No one's destiny is written anywhere except in the mind of God who has given you free will.....in other words the good Lord gave you a mind to use to determine your own path, to decide your own destiny.
You, and only you, have control over that.
“The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves.”
|—||William Shakespeare, Julius Caesar|