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This weeks sexual molestation fo a foster kid


Tate T. Pirnie, 25, of Wisconsin, originally been charged with first-degree sexual assault of a child under the age of 12. pleaded no contest to third-degree sexual assault of a foster child and felony child abuse was sentenced to six years in prison. Pirnie must serve at least three years, less 445 days, before his mandatory release.


He child, on the other, got a life sentence of trauma. She’s 12 years old now and is already in treatment for depression at this time, she in weekly counseling, she can’t sleep without medication and when she does sleep she has horrific nightmares.
The female foster child said that in September 2016 — when she was 9 years old — Pirnie had sexually assaulted her on at least two separate occasions.
Pirnie was told by an officer that the victim was found with Pirnie’s semen inside her, and Pirnie gave an explanation involving a teddy bear he owned that he said might have been the reason for that.
However, semen was never discovered on or in the victim. The story, Smith said, showed that Pirnie thought it was possible and was trying to make excuses.
His own attorney said  “I don’t mean to be harsh, but he’s not the smartest client I’ve ever had. ... The only thing he could think of was this bear”
“Though he did not fully confess, he basically did,” a prosecutor said. “They had nobody to tell, no place to go. They did stay with adults once in a while who kept letting them down. From a predatory standpoint, the victim in this case was a very good victim — she had no support, she was young, scared, scared of the state, and that’s why we don’t have a jury (trial),”

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A weathered barbershop in Old Havana.


A weathered barbershop in Old Havana. Credit Tomas Munita for The New York Times


Civilians, exhausted, hungry and thirsty, lining up for food and water in the Mamun neighborhood of Mosul in northern Iraq.
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Okay, so where is everybody else?



Ever hear of the Fermi paradox?



In a nutshell, here’s what it means;  

Fermi was an American physicist who He was stumped by the glaring contradiction between the lack of evidence for extraterrestrial civilizations elsewhere in the Milky Way galaxy and high estimates of their probability.

The main points of the Fermi paradox are these;

There are billions of stars in the galaxy that are similar to the Sun and many of these stars are billions of years older than the Solar system.

Scientifically there is a high the probability that at least some of these stars have Earth-like planets and if the Earth is typical, some may have already developed intelligent life. Some of these civilizations may have developed interstellar travel, a step the Earth is investigating now.

Following that reasoning, and based on rock-solid scientific calculations, we should have been visited by extraterrestrial several times by now.

But we haven’t, which leads to what is called the Great Filter, a theory that says that all existing species of life encounters a stage of evolution so hard to endure it eliminated most civilizations, here or in outer space.

There is also another theory.

According to a study published in 2019 in The Astronomical Journal, the Milky Way galaxy could be filled with alien civilizations, but that extraterrestrial life might be taking its time to fully explore the galaxy, even using the movement of star systems to make this type of journey easier.
Jonathan Carroll-Nellenback, a computational scientist and the study's lead author said "If you don't account for the motion of stars when you try to solve this problem, you're basically left with one of two solutions. "Either nobody leaves their planet, or we are in fact the only technological civilization in the galaxy."
In other words, stars and planets orbit the center of the Milky Way on unique paths at varying speeds, and they sometimes zip past one another as they travel. Aliens, according to the report, could simply be waiting for their next destination to come closer to them.



That about sums it up


A life well lived


I didn’t know this fellow, his Obit, written by the subject son, was sent to me by a friend, but I’m sorry we never got to know each other.

Joe Heller

 Joe Heller made his last undignified and largely irreverent gesture on September 8, 2019, signing off on a life, in his words, “generally well-lived and with few regrets.” When the doctors confronted his daughters with the news last week that “your father is a very sick man,” in unison they replied, “you have no idea.”
God thankfully broke the mold after Joe was born to the late Joseph Heller, Sr. and Ruth Marion (Clock) on January 24, 1937 in New Haven, CT. Being born during the depression shaped Joe’s formative years and resulted in a lifetime of frugality, hoarding and cheap mischief, often at the expense of others. Being the eldest was a dubious task but he was up for the challenge and led and tortured his siblings through a childhood of obnoxious pranks, with his brother, Bob, generally serving as his wingman. Pat, Dick and Kathy were often on the receiving end of such lessons as “Ding Dong, Dogsh*t” and thwarting lunch thieves with laxative-laced chocolate cake and excrement meatloaf sandwiches. His mother was not immune to his pranks as he named his first dog, “Fart,” so she would have to scream his name to come home if he wandered off.
Joe started his long and illustrious career as a Library Assistant at Yale Law School Library alongside his father before hatching a plan with his lifelong buddies, Ronny Kaiser and Johnny Olson, to join the Navy and see the world together. Their plot was thwarted and the three were split up when Joe pulled the “long straw” and was assigned to a coveted base in Bermuda where he joined the “Seabees,” Construction Battalion, and was appointed to the position of Construction Electrician’s Mate 3rd class. His service to the country and community didn’t end after his honorable discharge. Joe was a Town Constable, Volunteer Fireman and Ambulance Association member, Cross walk guard, Public Works Snow Plower and a proud member of the Antique Veterans organization.
Joe was a self-taught chemist and worked at Cheeseborough-Ponds where he developed one of their first cosmetics’ lines. There he met the love of his life, Irene, who was hoodwinked into thinking he was a charming individual with decorum. Boy, was she ever wrong. Joe embarrassed her daily with his mouth and choice of clothing. To this day we do not understand how he convinced our mother, an exceedingly proper woman and a pillar in her church, to sew and create the colorful costumes and props which he used for his antics. Growing up in Joe’s household was never dull. If the old adage of “You only pull the hair of those you love” holds true, his three daughters were well loved. Joe was a frequent customer of the girls’ beauty shops, allowing them to “do” his hair and apply make-up liberally. He lovingly assembled doll furniture and built them a play kitchen and forts in the back yard. During their formative years, Joe made sure that their moral fibers were enriched by both Archie Bunker and Benny Hill. When they began dating, Joe would greet their dates by first running their license plates and checking for bald tires. If their vehicle passed inspection, they were invited into the house where shotguns, harpoons and sheep “nutters” were left clearly on display.
After retiring from running Bombaci Fuel, he was perhaps, most well-known for his role as the Essex Town “Dawg Kecher.” He refused to put any of his “prisoners” down and would look for the perfect homes for them. One of them was a repeat offender who he named “A**hole” because no owner would ever keep him for very long because he was, in fact, an a**hole. My Dad would take his buddy on daily rides in his van and they’d roam around town with the breeze blowing through both of their fur. He never met a dog he didn’t like, the same could not be said for the wanna-be blue bloods, snoots and summer barnacles that roamed about town. His words, not ours. Well maybe not exactly his words as those would been much more colorful.
Joe was a frequent shopper at the Essex Dump and he left his family with a house full of crap, 300 pounds of birdseed and dead houseplants that they have no idea what to do with. If there was ever a treasure that he snatched out from under you among the mounds of junk, please wait the appropriate amount of time to contact the family to claim your loot. We’re available tomorrow. Joe was also a consummate napper. There wasn’t a road, restaurant or friend’s house in Essex that he didn’t fall asleep on or in. There wasn’t an occasion too formal or an event too dour that Joe didn’t interrupt with his apnea and voluminous snoring.
Besides his beloved wife, Irene, and brother, Bobby, Joe was pre-deceased by his pet fish, Jack, who we found in the freezer last week. Left to squabble over his vast fortune, real estate holdings and “treasures” are his three daughters Michelle Heller (Andrew Bennett) of Newton, MA, Lisette Heller (Lenny Estelle) of Ivoryton, CT and Monique Heller (John Parnoff) of Old Lyme, CT. He relished his role as Papa and Grampa Joe to Zachary, Maxwell and Emily Bennett, Megan, Mackenzie and Ryan Korcak, and Giovanna and Mattea Parnoff and hopes that he taught at least one of them to cuss properly. Left with decades of fond and colorful memories are his siblings Pat Bedard of Madison, Richard (Pat) Heller of Oxford, and Kathy Heller of Killingworth, sisters-in-law, Kathy McGowan of Niantic and Diane Breslin of Killingworth, and 14 nieces and nephews. No flowers, please. The family is seeking donations to offset the expense of publishing an exceedingly long obituary which would have really pissed Joe off. Seriously, what would have made him the happiest is for you to go have a cup of coffee with a friend and bullsh*t about his antics or play a harmless prank on some unsuspecting sap. If we still haven’t dissuaded you and you feel compelled to waste your hard-earned money to honor his memory, donations may be sent to: Seabee Memorial Scholarship Association, PO Box 667, Gulfport, MS 39502. A celebration of his life, with Joe laid out in all his glory, will be held on Thursday, September 12, at the Essex Fire Department, 11 Saybrook Road, from 4-7. A light dinner will be served as Joe felt no get-together was complete without food. None of his leftovers or kitchen concoctions will be pawned off on any unsuspecting guests. Feel free to be as late as you’d like as Joe was never on time for anything because of the aforementioned napping habits. Joe despised formality and stuffiness and would really be ticked off if you showed up in a suit. Dress comfortably. The family encourages you to don the most inappropriate T-Shirt that you are comfortable being seen in public with as Joe often did. Everybody has a Joe story and we’d love to hear them all. Joe faced his death and his mortality, as he did with his life, face on, often telling us that when he dropped dead to dig a hole in the back yard and just roll him in. Much to his disappointment, he will be properly interred with full military honors (and maybe Jack) next to his wife on Friday, September 13, at 10:00 am in Centerbrook Cemetery. The family is forever in debt to his neighbor, Barry Peterson, for all of his help in recent years. We couldn’t have done it without you. Sorry, Mom, Lisette and I did the best we could to take care of him and keep him out of your hair as long as we could. Back in your court now.


Miracle





On the morning of December 26, one of the largest earthquakes ever recorded triggered devastating tsunamis that was so enormous it swamped the entire coastal areas of northern and western Sumatra. The tsunami lasted between 15 and 30 minutes and in that short time, killed 250,000 people across 14 nations. Another 37,000 are still missing all these years later and at least 655,000 people were left homeless.
The devastation in the Indonesian province of Aceh was incredible. The nearby city of
Banda Aceh had a population of about 300,000  before the tsunami. More than 31,000 people were killed almost instantly and over one thousand bodies found on the streets in the provincial capital of Banda Aceh were placed in mass graves without waiting for identification as officials quickly tried to keep the sanitation situation from worsening.
The family of Jamaliah and Septi Rangkuti, who lived in West Aceh District were caught in the mass confusion that followed the earthquake and flood. 

It was a Sunday morning at almost 8:00 AM.  Jamaliah was hanging the family wash on a clothesline. Her children were in the house watching cartoons on television. Then the earthquake hit with a 9.1 magnitude. Jamaliah,  husband, Septi Rangkuti, ran from his bed  and collected his children and ran out on to the sidewalk in front of their house which sat less than 600 feet from the shoreline.
When the tsunami struck their home Septi Rangkuti grabbed his three children, Raudhatul Jannah, then 4, and Arif Pratama Rangkuti, 7 and tossed them atop a long wooden plank that floated past them. His wife, Jamaliah, and he pushed the children, frantically trying to stay ahead of the waters but they couldn’t outrun the massive wave that followed the initial floodwaters. When high waters hit, at an incredible speed and strength, the family was separated. No one in the family could swim. Later, when he waters subsided, Septi managed to locate his wife. They began a desperate search for their children. They searched for weeks before they resigned themselves to the traffic truth their children dead. One of their children, the eldest son, had survived.

An entire decade passed. In early 2014, Jamaliah’s brother older brother, Zainuddin
phoned his sister and said that for four nights in a row her daughter had come to him in his dreams. “A girl came to me, calling me Papa, and sat on my lap,” he would later recall. “As she sat there, one of her hairs slowly fell from her head to the ground.” When he woke up he worried that something had happened to one of his daughters, but they were fine
They both dismissed it. However, the next morning, Zainuddin was in a coffee shop when he saw a girl who was walking home from school, who bore a striking resemblance to his niece, Raudhatul, who had drowned with her brother in the tsunami ten years before.
He figured the girl to be about 14 years old, the age, the same age Raudhatul would have been had she not drowned in the flood. He couldn’t get the girl out of his mind and the next day he returned to the neighborhood and tracked the girl down. It turned out that the girl had been swept to the neighboring Banyak Island…..80 miles away from where she was separated from her family…… in the tsunami 10 years before where a fisherman named Mustamir Zai rescued her and brought her to his mother, who had raised her ever since.
 When he told his sister that he had found her daughter, she refused to believe him and continued to refuse to believe him until they were reunited in June that year. Sadly, Raudhatul had almost no memory of her life before the tragedy. "I remember when we were on the board. I was there with my brother," she said. "I was found by someone on the beach and taken to a house. That's where we were split."
Jamaliah and Septi Rangkuti decided that if their daughter had survived the waters, then it was entirely possible that their son Arif had survived as well. The international media, spurred on by the miraculous discovery of the Rangkuti’s daughter, joined the search.
It took less than a month to find Arif. He too had floated on the board to the island and had been living as a street orphan for years, sleeping in outdoor markets and abandoned shops.
A woman named Lana Bestir in West Sumatra had been feeding a homeless boy for years after he turned up sleeping outside of an Internet café that she owned. Bestir and her husband had a difficult time communicating since the boy could not speak Indonesian well, or the local dialect, and did not know his name so they dubbed him Ucok. The child had a massive and ugly scar on his forehead and explained that somebody had poured boiling water on his head. He remained on the streets, begging for food. The Bestir’s tried to register Ucok in school, but he refused all offers of help beyond his immediate needs.
When Bestir saw a photo of the boy taken before the tsunami, on the internet, she was shocked. Without telling him who it was, she showed the boy a photo of Jamaliah and asked if he knew who she was. “I did not tell him that it was of a woman looking for a missing son from the tsunami,” Bestir later recalled “Ucok stared at the picture for a moment and then said ‘Ma.’ At first, I did not believe it, so I asked him what his mother’s name was. He said ‘Liah.’” (Liah is short for Jamaliah, and is a name used by some of her friends to address her.) “I said, ‘OK, where are you from?’ and he replied that he was from Aceh. I asked him why he was here and Ucok began to cry. “There was a big wave,” he replied.
Bister took the boys photo and brought it to a television reporter who took the photo to Jamaliah, but she wasn’t sure. The boy in the photo was a young teen, his hair hung down over his ears and he was much darker than Arif had been, and his forehead also bore that melted scar. Jamaliah told the reporter that he son had fallen off the roof as a young boy and that the fall left a scar on the right side of his nose. The reporter phoned the Bister’s to check and they confirmed the scar on the boys nose.
The Bestir’s put Ucok on speakerphone and called Jamaliah. On hearing her voice, Ucok said: “Ma, please come and take me. I want to go back to Aceh.” Jamaliah asked where he was staying, and Ucok replied that he had no home, not even a blanket.
The following day Jamaliah and Septi Rangkuti rushed to the Bestir’s home to collect their long lost son only to find out that he was missing. The local police eventually found him, sleeping, inside a local graveyard. Upon meeting his family, his first words were
 “How is my bicycle?” (Arif had a bike as a young boy.)
He said that he remembered washing up on the beach and that he was eventually taken to live with a family, but he couldn’t remember where they lived or what their names were. He told a horrifying that one day when he stayed in bed too long, a woman in the house threw scalding coffee in his face. After that, he ran away and lived on the streets.
Jamaliah took her son home but it wasn’t a joyful reunion. Arif, he was no longer called Ucok was enrolled in a special needs school; he was 17 but had not had any education for at least seven years.  Like tens of thousands of other children whose lives were destroyed by the flood, he is still badly traumatized. He has the mentality of a much younger child. Arif had been a top student,  a bright child, but the street child didn’t know his own name and could hardly speak any language. Even after he was safely returned to his parents Arif kept going to the neighbors, begging for money and food. "I was sad at first," Jamaliah recalled. "But then I said, 'Whatever happened to my son, I've been waiting so long, I can be patient and take care of him now.'"
 But there are questions about the reunion, which seems almost too remarkable to be true. The family who cared for the daughter, Raudhatul, for the past 10 years, later denied that she was a tsunami orphan.  According to them, the local fisherman who found the girl, Zai, had brought her back to his town after traveling to the Banyak Islands to dive for sea cucumbers, a delicacy in Asia. The girl had lived with Zai, his wife, and their three sons in Blangpidie for about two years. When the family moved to Medan, on the opposite coast, the girl stayed behind with Zai’s sister-in-law. When the sister-in-law relocated to another part of Sumatra, the girl was placed in the care of Zai’s mother-in-law, a widow who spent her days in Blangpidie collecting cockle clams in an estuary, and plastic bottles from the beach to sell to recyclers.
Ida Maryam, who looked after Raudhatul for five years, said “She is not a tsunami victim. She is an orphan from a couple from Banyak Island. She lived with her grandmother in Pulau Banyak before being brought by my sister to Aceh to us, her grandmother never said she was a tsunami victim, only that she is an orphan. She actually has two siblings that are now still living with her grandmother in the Banyak Islands. I have no idea why people are saying she is a tsunami victim”
For her part, Raudhatul had never talked about her life before the fisherman returned with her. Nor could she recall her own name when she arrived from the islands. (The family renamed her “Weni”)
When word that Jamaliah and Septi Rangkuti had traveled to the island where the girl was living to identify her, Zai, the fisherman, was livid.  He phoned Jamaliah and Septi Rangkuti and told them that the girl was not a tsunami orphan but rather the orphaned daughter of one of his cousins from the Banyak Islands.
A DNA test cost, at a minimum, $1,000 American dollars, a sum far, far greater than any of the players involved in the story could hope to afford. However, when government officials said they would pay for the DNA exam, Zai backed off. He seemed oddly reluctant to involve the authorities.
But there was still doubt. Then the man who had helped Zainuddin, Jamaliah’s brother, find Raudhatul was named Rusmadi. (Like some other Indonesians, he uses a single name.) he had been a former
local commander of the Free Aceh Movement, a radical separationist movement. He came forward to say that he was related to the fisherman Zai’s wife. He said that Zai had told him ten years before that Raudhatul was a local orphan who had family on the island, which, Rusmadi said. Made him wonder why none of the family ever came to visit the girl.  He said he was also annoyed when Raudhatul was passed around to Zai’s  relatives rather then being sent back to the Banyak Islands to live among her extended family there, if, in fact, they existed. He also recalled that one day he overheard an argument between a young Raudhatul and a boy who tried to insult her by calling her a “tsunami victim” and that she replied “Yes, I am, and you should respect me because of that.”
During the armed rebellion on the island, troops under Rusmadi, in a case of mistaken identity,  had taken a fishermen Gaipe, prisoner. Rusmadi had intervened and got Gaipe released.  In May of 2013, Gaipe came to visit Rusmadi and thank him for his help. During the visit, Gaipe said ‘How is the condition of the tsunami victim that my brother brought here?’”  Unknown to Rusmadi, Gaipe was Zai’s brother. “He explained that he was the one who had rescued Raudhatul at sea, along with her brother, and had taken them to the Banyak Islands.”

When Arif saw his uncle Zainuddin, he shouted out “Baba” , just as he had called him before the flood.  Zainuddin said whatever one was thinking, that if Zai had lied about Raudhatul being a tsunami survivor, he more than probably knew about Arif being alive as well, in fact, he more than probably came across the two children together and elected only to take the girl, leaving the boy to the streets to survive. One day, without being asked, Raudhatul suddenly said that although she couldn’t recall her life before the tsunami, she did remember coming to the Banyak Islands with an old woman. “Arif was there, but only for a few days”
At last reports, Arif had adjusted to his new life. So has Raudhatul. Their lives are stable now. They are, by all reports, well-loved and happier than they have ever been. Arif had transformed from a feral, chain-smoking, unbathed kid into a new person. He is still reluctant to meet newcomers and occasionally his behavior is erratic and disruptive, but he is also said to have a great capacity for fun. Like teenage boys across the world, he worries about his looks and asks his mother for advice on what to wear to look his best.  Raudhatul, who suffered a far less awful experience, is said to be a well-adjusted, outgoing and happy child.

Unless a DNA test is done, and it will more than likely never be done, the world will never know for certain if  the two children returned to the Rangkuti family are really Raudhatul and Arif. But the question is, does it really matter?