Here's the bad news. On the journey of life, it is a fact that you will meet people who just don't get you. No matter what you say, they won't get you. You could speak a million words to them about who and what you are and they won't understand a single word of it.
Now here's the good news. You will also meet many, many people who will understand you, who will get you, without ever speaking a word between you.
“The struggle for Enlightenment, and why so many give up, is that once you liberate yourself from one prison, you find yourself in another. One of the most important attributes of a person on this journey is to have immense perseverance. Never give up.” Hxni
Learn to let go.
Have anger from over a past event? Let is go. It's a tough thing to do, but do it.
Angry over a lost love? It's over and its gone and you need to let it go.
Been betrayed? Welcome to the club. Get over it. Let it go.
Change is a difficult thing to do. Sometimes we hold on to even our misery because its easy to do.
Fight it. Fight to let go.
Life knock you onto the canvas? It's okay, stay there for a while. Regroup. Don't listen to people who tell you to forget about it and move along. Having your heart broken, losing a dream, suffering a set back takes its toll on the heart. So you just stay down for a while until you're ready to get back up, take all the time you need. Just remember, you do have to get back up eventually. That's how the game of life works.
Know when to let go. If it's depressing you, dragging you down into the dumps, review the reasons and if it isn't the right reasons, get rid of it. Push it out of your life. The negative builds inside your head and will eventually block out all the wonders and magnificent things around you. Don't let that happen. Be aware of it. If it doesn't move you forward or add joy to your life, get rid of it.
Once you get the sense that someone is avoiding you, stay away from them, in fact, run away from them as fast as you can because if that person won't confront you with his or her problem that they have with you, they are going to become a negative issue in your very life at some point. Take them out of your life before that happens.
Change it. Live your passions.
If you don't have enough time in your life, turn off the TV. It's amazing how much time that will clear up.
Unhappy in your job? Change jobs, or at the least, plan to change jobs. A paycheck isn't worth your mental health.
Stop looking for the love of your life. That's just dumb. Love takes time and the love of your life takes a lifetime to develop.