Find a way to make it
work. That’s what makes a great relation; two people caring about each other
enough to figure out a way to make it work.
Talk it out. Communicate
and communicate to make it work, listen to the other person and listen to
understand. Don’t listen to reply. Without communication the relationship
fails.
Trust each other and
trust that whatever the issue is that it will eventually work out because
without trust between you there is simply no reason to continue.
Understand that people
are often unreasonable and self centered. They will occasionally forget or
overlook all of the good and kind things you’ve done. That’s human nature.
Forgive them. That’s how it works in the long run, forgive them. Forgiveness
doesn’t excuse poor behavior, the behavior we all exhibit from time to time,
but forgiveness does prevent that behavior from destroying everything there is
between you.
The bottom line is this,
relationships are hard work, they are easy to start and hard to keep alive.
You both have to work at it everyday.
