Change is an ongoing and largely consists of you taking command of your life.
Want something? Then go after it. If you don't go after it, you'll never have it. It's that simple.
Want something? Ask for it. If you don;t ask for it the answer will always be "No" and the sad thing about that is that you are the one giving the answer, you are the one telling yourself "No"
Do you want to move ahead in this life? Then take a step forward. If you don't take a step forward you always, always, always be in the same place.It's that simple.
Change is difficult and its scary. But you can do it. It's that simple.